Thursday, 3 November 2011

Can anyone help this couple.

One of our members has been cleared of sexual abuse after a Chief Constable investigated his claim and found that social services had labelled him wrongly of committing.  Over a period of 13 years John has had this hanging over him and the couple have lost friends who felt there was no smoke without fire. They have been through a terrible time and the stress has taken its toll on them. 

They have written to the MOD, a Chief Constable who refused to investigate because John was a Police Officer in his force at the time. Also to social services claiming compensation for 13 years of hell.

John claims it was a wilful act of social services just to prove how powerful they were.

John is now looking for a lawyer to take up his case and says he has every proof and dates and names of what he has been accused of.

Can anyone help?

I was speaking on BBC Radio today.

 I was speaking on BBC Radio about the decision not to give fathers or grandparents any rights to their grandchildren and this is what I managed to get over down to *****

 Just before the elections the Daily Mail broke the story that grandparents were to get sweeping new rights to their grandchildren.

These proposed new rights were to eliminate the need to ask a Court’s permission before raising an action for contact. Scotland has been working like that for years with no benefits from it. It only opens the door for lawyers to convince confused grandparents that they could have a case and spend all their hard earned savings to lose in the end. It was all an election scam from the Tory’s which I blew up in their face.

The Government say grandparents are very important in a child’s life but they will not recognise them as relevant persons. All a con.

Fact 1:-
Thousands of broken hearted grandparents from all over UK are telling me they are being ignored, when it comes to caring for their grandchildren, and told by social services “we don’t need to speak to you”. They sob to me on the phone “The children will think we have deserted them”  “I know they will be broken hearted so why are they doing this to us?” Thousands of grandparents can’t all be wrong.

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Fact:- 2 
The Government is paying millions to Woman’s Aid whose primary task is, rightly, to isolate women and children from anyone who is violent, but they have also taken it upon themselves to isolate the parental grandparents, as well, even if they have done no wrong. This is not in the best interests of children to be cut off from loving grandparents. We have requested Woman’s Aid to meet with us to discuss the situation but they have refused.

The Scottish Labour Government created with our help The Charter for Grandchildren to accompany the new Scottish Family Law Bill 2006 but could not get legislation at that time. The idea was to have professionals look more closely at the role grandparents can play in their grandchildren’s lives but again it could not be enforced and they have not entered into the spirit of it. We are now campaigning for The Charter for Grandchildren to be made mandatory or an explanation from professionals why they are ignoring it.

These facts must be addressed before we can start to “Bring Families Together”

Kira wants your story.

Kira@talktothepress.com  15:18 (2 minutes ago)
Hi Jimmy,

I’m looking for a case study and am wondering if you can help me? It needs to be within the last few years or so.
I’m looking for a father and grandparents to talk about how they have been separated from their child/grandchild after divorce.

Can you help at all?

Best

Kira

Letter s to:- Grandparents Plus/Grandparents Association

To:-

Grandparents Plus/Grandparents Association.

I have been saying for a long time that grandparents will never get legal rights to their grandchild and now today’s devastating news you may well like to consider backing the Charter for Grandchildren which if made mandatory would give the children the right to have grandparents in their lives or an explanation why this cannot be.

The biggest obstacles we found when trying for rights in the Scottish Parliament was from parents who thought that grandparents would end up with more rights than they have. The Charter for Grandchildren is parent friendly because it does not stand on parent’s toes.  We cannot afford to have fathers as enemies and we have managed to forge a very good supportive alliance with FnF Scotland.

If you are interested call

Jimmy Deuchars
Grandparents Apart UK
0141 882 5658

May outlines plan to combat gang culture. Start first with that rowdy lot in the House of commons.

http://www.cypnow.co.uk/Youth_Justice/gated/1101932/

May outlines plan to combat gang culture

By Neil Puffett 01 November 2011

Attempts to tackle gang culture in England will focus on early intervention, partnership working and tougher punishment, Home Secretary Theresa May has revealed.

Of course the social services are famous for not getting it right and now they have the cheek to wriggle out of the blame..

Case history:- A 10 year old boy was separated completely from his granddad who was said too be too old and the boy was shunted through the care system. This boy was interviewed at 16 and was found to be a typical product from the care system:- No qualifications, no skills, no respect for other people, unmanageable, running around with a gang plaguing a city centre.

Had this boy been left in his granddads care he would have lived in a very nice well kept spotless flat. Followed his granddads religion and been encouraged to do well at school and as his granddad was a cook and didn’t drink alcohol he would have been fed well and brought up decently.

Have social services got that right? No. They should be prosecuted for ruining this boy’s life by not caring for him properly. They spend a fortune in fancy clothes to create the impression they are being well looked after but the spiritual/emotional needs are not catered for leaving a very confused angry/resentful youth with nowhere to go but run with gangs.

Jimmy Deuchars
Grandparents Apart UK
0141 882 5658
www.grandparentsapart.co.uk

The Family Justice Review panel

The Family Justice Review panel today published its final report which announces a package of recommendations aimed at tackling delays in the family justice system and to make sure that children and families are given the service they deserve.
The key recommendations are:
  • A new six month time limit in care cases so delays are significantly reduced.
  • Enabling people to make their own arrangements for their children when they separate, and only use courts when necessary.
  • Overhauling the family justice system so that agencies and professionals work together with greater coherence to improve the experience and outcomes for children and families.
These recommendations follow the independent review panel findings that the current system of family justice is under huge strain.  Rising caseloads coupled with incoherent organisation and processes are causing damaging delays for children and families.  It takes on average over a year for an outcome in a care case - far too long in the life of a child.  The backlog of cases in the public law system means today, around 20,000 children are waiting for their futures to be decided.
The panel recommend:
A simpler system to deliver an improved service:
  • The creation of a Family Justice Service to make sure agencies and professionals work together to make positive improvements in the system for children and families.
  • More judges who are specialists in family law to hear cases from start to finish to ensure consistency and confidence in the system.
  • A simplified court structure making it easier for people using the courts to know where to go.
  • More child focus and better training for professionals to make sure children’s views are heard. 
  • Changes to public law (protecting children and taking them into care) to deliver more quickly for children:
  • A six month time limit for all cases, save in exceptional circumstances.
  • Less reliance on unnecessary expert witnesses and reports.
  • Refocusing the courts on the core issue of determining whether the child should go into care.
  • Changes to private law (arrangements about children and money following separation), to create a simpler service for families who are separating, aimed at helping them and their children focus on reaching a safe, joint agreement, if possible, without going to court:
  • A single online and phone help service to make it simpler for people to decide the most appropriate way forward and increase clarity of understanding.
  • Use of Parenting Agreements and a new ‘child arrangements order’ to bring together arrangements for children’s care after separation, focusing on the child rather than ‘contact’ and ‘residence’. 
  • Increased provision of mediation to prevent cases going to court unnecessarily.
The final review has now been formally presented to the Ministry of Justice, Department for Education and the Welsh Government for consideration.
The Government has issued the following response:
"We are committed to transforming the family justice system and welcome the recommendations made by the Independent Review Panel as a good start. We want a family justice system which truly meets the needs of those at the heart of the system - children.

"It is vital we radically reform the family justice system to tackle delay and improve the service to children. In particular, we know the amount of time it takes for a child to be adopted is unacceptable. We are already taking forward some of the review's recommendations on speeding up care cases and we intend to introduce time limits of 6 months as part of a package of reforms to tackle delay. We hope many cases should be completed much quicker than this. From January 2012 we will publish court-by-court performance so we can see exactly where improvements need to be targeted. In addition, we agree with the panel's strong focus on mediation for separating couples, as a more practical and amicable alternative to court, especially for children, and we will be increasing funding for this by two thirds to £25 million a year.
"As set out in the Coalition Programme for Government, this Government is committed to encouraging shared parenting and is firmly of the view that children should have meaningful relationships with both parents after separation.  We will examine carefully the Panel's recommendations as part of achieving that commitment.
"We are considering all the recommendations in detail and we will respond in due course.

Wednesday, 2 November 2011

S.N.P. Minimum alcohol prices will kill children.

Now that SNP are again trying to force through a minimum price on alcohol, but what about the children of problem drinkers.  This government are ignoring the poor children that will suffer when they only get what’s left of the weekly income if any. Price hiking will only raise the crime rate as it will not stop problem drinkers getting their alcohol fix but create more poverty and neglect among poorer families. Child neglect/abuse will soar if this is implemented but does Alec Salmond/Nicola Sturgeon care? They are playing politics with the welfare of the most vulnerable of our society.
SNP are the worst government of all time for caring for children and the people who are very important in their lives like grandparents.  Families are very low on their priorities list.

Steps that can be taken before SNP causes more pain and devastation to families.

1,   Proven problem drinkers should be made to attend counselling by law.

2,   The age for purchasing alcohol should be raised to 21 making it easier for
       shop assistants to spot under age buyers.

3,    Happy hours should be totally banned.

4,    Cheap offers in supermarkets should be stopped.

5,    using alcohol for promotions should be an offence.

6,    Outlets for selling alcohol should be reduced.

Jimmy Deuchars
Grandparents Apart UK
0141 882 5658